Retreat
✔ Break the resentment cycle - Let go of the past without reliving the pain—and finally reconnect.
✔ Reignite intimacy - Bring back the passion, connection, and desire you miss.
✔ Embody masculine & feminine energy - Create real polarity through leadership, softness, and presence.
✔ Communicate without conflict - Speak to be heard—without shutting down or blowing up.
✔ Master your conflict style - Argue less, repair faster, and stop repeating the same fight.
✔ Feel safe again—emotionally and physically - Heal wounds, rebuild trust, and let your guard down.
✔ Rebuild lasting trust - Use proven tools to restore trust that actually sticks.
✔ Grow your emotional intelligence - Understand your triggers—and respond with empathy, not reactivity.
✔ Be vulnerable without fear - Open up and feel safe being fully seen and loved.
✔ Lead with mutual respect - End power struggles and lead each other with love and strength.
✔ Create a shared vision - Design a future that excites and unites you both.
✔ Get a roadmap for real change - Walk away with tools, support, and a plan that lasts.
✔ You feel more like roommates than lovers, living in two different worlds, barely working as a team.
✔ You’re exhausted, frustrated, and resentful—because it feels like you’re doing it all on your own.
✔ Communication feels hard. You struggle to express your emotions without being shut down, dismissed, or misunderstood.
✔ You’re constantly on edge—feeling criticised, attacked, or needing to defend yourself.
✔ Nothing you do ever feels good enough, and deep down… you’re tired of trying.
✔ Intimacy is lacking—physically, emotionally, spiritually—and you both feel the distance.
✔ You don’t feel safe, seen, or truly understood by your partner.
✔ You crave deeper emotional connection—but don’t know how to get there.
✔ You’re disconnected, stuck in the cycle of resentment, and missing the spark you once had.
✔ Life is so busy that your relationship has slipped to the bottom of the list.
But it doesn’t have to stay this way. Save My Marriage School™ will show you how to break free from the cycle of disconnection and resentment and teach you the exact tools, frameworks, and strategies to rebuild trust, reconnect emotionally, and recreate your relationship from the inside out.
This isn’t the end of your relationship—it’s the beginning of something so much better.
A 3-day immersive retreat is included for you and your partner when you join Save My Marriage School. It’s designed to help couples reconnect, rebuild trust, and reignite passion—without years of therapy. You’ll walk away with the tools, practices, and clarity to recreate your relationship from the inside out.
Limited to just 20 couples. Spots fill fast.
This retreat is for successful couples who have built a life together but feel the connection slipping away.
You love each other, but resentment, miscommunication, and emotional distance have made it harder to truly see and hear each other.
You’re ready to break old patterns and rebuild a relationship that feels passionate, connected, and unshakable.
Despite all your efforts, there's a part of your connection that feels stuck, holding you both back from the deeper intimacy and love you long for.
At the Save My Marriage School Retreat, we don’t just scratch the surface. This is a deeply transformative experience, designed for couples who are ready to break through the walls of resentment, miscommunication, and emotional distance that have built up over time.
Together, we’ll unpack the layers of past hurts, unmet needs, and unresolved emotions that have kept you from truly reconnecting. With expert guidance, this retreat will give you the space, tools, and support to heal, rebuild trust, and reignite the passion in your marriage—while surrounded by the tranquility and beauty of Bali.
✔ Feeling more like roommates than romantic partners—only talking about the kids, work, and what needs doing around the house.
✔ The spark being gone—You feel more like 'room mates'
then partners and there is no time and energy for the relationship.
✔ Shutting down and avoiding the conversations you know you need to have.
✔ Always struggling to talk about how you feel because it always leads to a fight and disappointment.
✔ Feeling stuck in a rut, helpless, and unsure how to fix it.
Attend our national or international 3 day Luxury Couples Retreat to relax, connect, learn and embody the relationship you are working towards creating together!
Get 24/7 access to the Save My Marriage School Curriculum inside your student portal. You’ll discover how to master communication, connection, intimacy and your joint goals to feel like a successful couple, working as a united team.
Take part in LIVE Q&A sessions each week with your coaches Aston & Adam to get your questions answered and receive the support you need. Get specific advice for your situation and be held accountable to your goals.
You'll receive an in depth personalised plan for your relationship. Get specific guidance on what to do and how to do it so you can make progress towards your relationship goals fast!
When you graduate, get a “Save My Marriage School Certified” degree. This serves as proof that you went through all 4 terms of the program and showcases your dedication to mastering the skills needed to create a thriving marriage.
The resentment lingered. The disconnection grew. And they felt like they were failing—not just as a couple, but as parents.
Between work, kids, and raising a special needs child, they had no time to reconnect. Michelle felt unsupported. Andrew checked out.
She came back to her feminine energy and feels more relaxed, supported and desired by her husband. His words “I now naturally want to take the bins out and do more for her because I feel loved and appreciated.”
They are proud that they are now modelling a healthy, loving relationship for their children.
Josh - “We are in a tough place and I want to rekindle our love for each other, I believe this retreat could help with taking this first step towards this.”
Beck - “I don't want to be married to Josh anymore. The pain and suffering is too much. I want to be happy.”
They have learnt how to create safety in their relationship allowing Beck to feel safe when communicating. They now have the tools to resolve conflict quickly and easily.
Beck has been able to soften more into her feminine as she now knows how and feels safe to do so. There is less criticism, more appreciation and they both feel happier in themselves and excited about their future together.
Emma felt as though her feelings weren’t not being heard, she didn’t feeling valued, appreciated or a priority to Sean.
Sean felt like he couldn’t win. He was working hard flying away for work and spending weeks away from his family. He was trying to be there for her and provide the life they wanted but still felt like he was failing. They were both at a cross road.
For Emma the resentment is now gone and she feels appreciated for who she is. She is relaxed, in her feminine and more excited than ever about what they are creating together.
Sean is loving seeing this side to his wife and it’s inspired him to step up his own personal growth, his commitment to the relationship and taking steps towards a new career by exploring his purpose.
WE'VE BEEN WHERE YOU ARE
"I Think We Need to Get a Divorce…"
That’s what I said one night, sitting across from Adam—exhausted, resentful, and completely disconnected.
He froze. “Really? Is it that bad?”
He thought it was just a phase.
He thought I was the problem.
The truth? We were both trying our best.
Adam was working hard, helping where he could.
I was juggling everything else—kids, work, the house, the mental load.
But it wasn’t working.
We didn’t feel like a team.
We weren’t fighting—but we weren’t connected either.
Conversations were about chores, work, and who was more exhausted.
We were surviving—not living.
Then I asked a question that changed everything:
“Would you want your daughter to marry a man like you’ve been being...
Or your son to marry the version of me you’ve been living with?”
He paused and said, “Honestly… no.”
That truth hit us both hard. But instead of blame, we found something else—
responsibility.
Through tears, I said:
“Thank you. I respect your honesty.”
Then I admitted,
“I want to be better—but I don’t know how. I need help.”
That night we realised:
Maybe our relationship didn’t fail…
Maybe we just stopped working on it.
We didn’t fall out of love—we fell into resentment.
We weren’t broken—just missing the tools.
So we got curious and started learning:
Masculine/feminine energy
Emotional intelligence
Nervous system regulation
Communication, unmet needs, unhealed wounds
And as we grew, our relationship transformed.
We didn’t just repair it—we recreated it.
The problem wasn’t growing apart.
It was not knowing how to grow together.
If this feels familiar—if the spark is gone, if you’re stuck in the same arguments—please know:
Your marriage isn’t broken.
It’s just missing the right tools.
That’s why we created Save My Marriage School™
A proven framework with the skills, support, and structure to rebuild connection, even when it feels impossible.
AN INCREASE OF
Don’t put your relationship on the back burner.
Don’t settle for survival when thriving is possible.
We’ll walk with you.
We’ll guide you step by step.
And we’ll show you how to recreate your relationship—just like we did.
We can’t wait to support your journey.
Hey, we are Aston and Adam, husband and wife, parents and relationship coaches. We are here to help you create the relationship you've always dreamt of.
We work with women, men & couples to help them save their marriages, reconnect with their partners, rebuild their relationships, and create the deep, meaningful connections that they crave.
We are so passionate about this work and deeply care because we have been where you are.
Back in 2019, after the birth of my second child I started to notice a difference in my relationship with my husband. We had been married 6 years at this point and we were not connecting and communicating like we used to.
My biggest fear was that my husband and I were drifting apart and we were not modelling love and relationships in a healthy way to our children. We were doing the best we could with what we knew but deep down we knew we could do better, if we had the time, space and someone showed us how.
From that moment we made a commitment to put each other first again. We invested in programs, courses, retreats and worked with coaches to learn what we didn't know about how to create the relationship of our dreams and desires. We now feel like a team again, we understand each other, we are deeply communicating & connecting and experience MORE love, passion & intimacy than ever before.
We want the same for you and we're here to support you and guide you to bring back the communication, connection, happiness and love again so click the button below to apply to join us inside Save My Marriage School.
Aston & Adam Simmonds are the creators of the 'Recreate Your Relationship Framework™' & the incredibly popular, 'Save My Marriage School™'. Together they have helped thousands of couples from all over the world save their marriages and create a more beautiful future together for themselves and their kids.
2 x tickets to the 3 Day Luxury Couples Retreat
3 days of retreat experiences
Gourmet meals prepared by local chefs
Transformative Workshops and Activities
Daily Meditation & Breathwork
Full access to sauna & cold plunge (when available)
Value = $9,997
Lifetime access to the Save My Marriage School curriculum for you and your partner ($9,997 VALUE)
4 x 60 minute 1:1 coaching calls with Aston or Adam ($3,158 VALUE)
Weekly group coaching sessions with Aston and Adam for 12 months ($12,922 VALUE)
12 months of message support ($4,997 VALUE)
Dozens of tools, templates, resources and downloadables ($997 VALUE)
Value = $27,074
TOTAL VALUE = $37,071
$6,997*
ONE TIME PAYMENT (AUD)
*ALL PRICES ARE FOR A COUPLE (2 PEOPLE)
$162*
52 x WEEKLY PAYMENTS (AUD)
*ALL PRICES ARE FOR A COUPLE (2 PEOPLE)
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This is a self paced program so you can get started as soon as you join. You’ll be given instant access to the program, community and all of your resources upon joining.
You’ll also get access to our online portal where everything will take place and you will be able to see all upcoming group calls and be given your link to book in your 1:1 calls.
Save My Marriage School is designed to provide you with a clear, step-by-step process to transform your relationship. Once you join, you'll gain instant access to our comprehensive online portal, which is packed with video lessons that guide you through each stage of the transformation process.
In addition to the online content, you'll have access to weekly group calls where you can ask questions, get personalized advice, and connect with others who are on the same journey. These calls are a great way to receive extra support and build a sense of community.
A key part of the program is our transformative 3-day retreat, where you'll dive deep into the work, strengthen your connection with your partner, and accelerate your progress in a powerful, in-person setting.
Throughout your journey, you'll have ongoing support and accountability from the Save My Marriage School team, ensuring that you stay on track and get the help you need to create lasting change in your relationship. We're committed to being with you every step of the way.
Yes. The price to join the program is for a couple. You will both get access to the program, resources, group calls, 1:1 calls and you can both attend the 3 day luxury couples retreat all for the one off investment.
Yes. As a founding member you receive 4 x 1:1 calls to use with either Aston or Adam.
We understand that time is precious, which is why Save My Marriage School is designed to fit into your busy schedule—requiring just 10-15 minutes per week. If you’d like even more support, you’re welcome to join our weekly group calls, but that’s entirely optional.
Now, imagine a better relationship with just 15 minutes a week. If we could guarantee that, would you make the time?
If you truly want transformation, you’ll find a way.
Because if nothing changes, nothing changes.
Bali, October 3rd - 6th.
We run two of these retreats per year and will give you up to 2 years to be able to come. That means you will have 4 x opportunities to join us at 4 different locations. We usually run one in Australia and one internationally per year.
Not at all. This program is for anyone who wants to improve their relationship and their life. It’s actually very common for only one person to be ready to take the first step. Be the leader and take the initiative!
What’s amazing about this work is that as you start applying the strategies in Save My Marriage School, you’ll begin to see positive changes in your relationship—and even in your partner—without them needing to go through the program. It truly feels like magic!
Plus, you get lifetime access to all the content, so your partner can jump in and start the program whenever they’re ready.
Yes, absolutely. Many couples come to us already living apart — unsure if things can be repaired.
Save My Marriage School is designed to help you rebuild from wherever you are right now. Whether you’re separated, living under different roofs, or even not speaking much — if there's still a part of you that wants to make it work, we’ll guide you through the exact steps to reconnect, rebuild trust, and reignite the connection.
Living separately doesn’t mean it’s over — it just means it’s time to take intentional action.
As part of Save My Marriage School we run group calls every week. This is a chance to jump on and learn new skills and tools as well as get your questions answered. No more struggling on your own, wondering how to turn things around. Experience the feedback and support you need to reach your dream relationship in record time.
The average divorce in Australia costs over $20,000 — not to mention the emotional toll, family disruption, and years of resentment.
But couples who join Save My Marriage School don’t just avoid separation — they experience real transformation:
Deeper connection
Better communication
Renewed intimacy
Many go on to thrive beyond their relationship — launching new careers, businesses, or stepping into leadership roles — all because they’ve rebuilt their foundation and reignited their purpose, together.
This isn’t just about saving your marriage. It’s about recreating the life you both deserve.
NO. Save My Marriage School is a life changing 12 month experience that combines a range of transformational modalities such as relationship coaching, Hypnotherapy, NLP, Breathwork, a community of like minded couples, accountability and a transformational 3 day luxury couples retreat, FOR FREE!
In the last 12 months alone we have worked closely with more than 200 couples and their results have been life changing. The average couple who works with us has experienced a 49% increase in communication, a 63% increase in connection and a 87% increase in intimacy. Not to mention the impact this work has on their work, kids and their overall health and well-being!
We have been where you are and we don’t just teach relationship skills. We show you how to become the kind of person who has the relationship you want. By combining mind and body and by using a range of life changing modalities such as relationship coaching, Hypnotherapy, NLP, Breathwork, a community of like minded couples, accountability and a transformational 3 day luxury couples retreat, the results are second to none.
Absolutely!
Lifetime access to the Save My Marriage School curriculum for you and your partner ($9,997 VALUE)
4 x 60 minute 1:1 coaching calls with Aston or Adam ($3,158 VALUE)
Weekly group coaching sessions with Aston and Adam for 12 months ($12,922 VALUE)
12 months of message support ($4,997 VALUE)
Dozens of tools, templates, resources and downloadables ($997 VALUE)
Total Value = $27,074
The bonuses alone are worth more than 3 times the investment!
Absolutely! Both you and your partner can have access to the program. Once you join, you'll both have access to the online portal, video lessons, weekly group calls, and the 3-day retreat. This way, you can work through the material together, support each other, and grow as a team. We’re here to help both of you create the relationship you truly desire.